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About Kayt

Hi, I’m Kayt.

I’m a planner enthusiast, writer, and lifelong language nerd living in Arizona’s high desert—where snow on a cactus is just part of winter. This space is for the things that keep me grounded: planning, learning, creativity, and finding meaning in a full (and very real) life.

I share that life through Kayt’s Paper Trail, my YouTube channel all about planning, stationery, and using paper to make sense of busy seasons. My videos are calm, practical, and intentionally low-pressure—like planning alongside a friend rather than chasing perfection. You can also find related designs and resources in my Etsy shop.

Writing is at my core. I’ve published a novel (the first in a series I hope to continue), short stories, poetry, and a novella. On Substack at Mending the Rift, I explore politics, power, and accountability with clarity over outrage and understanding over division. I also offer tutoring and proofreading support, helping with writing, research, editing, and learning strategies in a friendly, collaborative way.

Outside of writing and planning, you’ll find me baking, gardening, watching birds and squirrels at my window, or tinkering with paper layouts. I’m learning Mandarin (slowly, imperfectly, but with enthusiasm), enjoy telenovelas and British TV (Come Dine With Me, Friday Night Dinner, Shetland, Vera), love sharks, and occasionally indulge in plausible ghost stories.

I’m a proud dog mom, a devoted feeder of stray cats, a museum nerd, and a defender of the Oxford comma. Life doesn’t need to be optimized to be meaningful—and that’s exactly what I hope this corner of the internet feels like: a place to learn, create, and plan alongside someone who gets it.


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